RED FLAG WARNING

Abusive behavior often begins subtly and escalates over time. Individuals who abuse their partners use a wide range of tactics to gain power and control, many of which can appear early in a relationship.

According to the National Network to End Domestic Violence (NNEDV), the following behaviors are common warning signs that a partner may become abusive. These red flags should be taken seriously and not ignored:

• Pressures you to move quickly into a relationship

• Uses excessive flattery early on and seems “too good to be true”

• Wants exclusive attention and discourages time with friends or family

• Pushes you to give up hobbies, school, work, or other interests

• Disregards or violates your personal boundaries

• Displays extreme jealousy or frequently accuses you of being unfaithful

• Constantly monitors your whereabouts through calls, texts, or messages

• Criticizes, insults, or belittles you, calling you names or making you feel worthless

• Refuses to take responsibility for their behavior and blames others

• Has a history of abusive behavior toward past partners or others

• Blames former partners entirely for failed relationships

• Controls finances, takes your money, or creates debt in your name

• Exhibits intense anger toward you but remains calm and composed around others

Recognizing these warning signs can help individuals seek support early and reduce the risk of further harm. If you or someone you know is experiencing these behaviors, help is available.