OUR FINDINGS

At Harbor House Domestic Violence Center, we recognize that domestic violence is a crime unlike any other. Relationships rarely begin with abuse, which can make domestic violence difficult to understand—both for those experiencing it and for those observing from the outside.

Abuse often develops over time. A perpetrator may use trust, emotional connection, and shared history to gain power and control over a partner. Because of this complexity, it can be difficult for survivors to leave, and equally difficult for others to understand why leaving is not simple or immediate.

To better understand the nature of domestic violence, Harbor House relies on research and guidance from state and national coalitions dedicated to ending domestic abuse. These organizations help shed light on the patterns, behaviors, and warning signs that define abusive relationships.

Through this research, we examine key areas that deepen understanding and support prevention and intervention efforts, including:

• Frightening Statistics — Data that illustrates the scope and impact of domestic violence

• Red Flag Warnings — Early signs that may indicate abusive behavior

• The Complex Pattern of Abuse — Understanding the many forms abuse can take

• Common Characteristics — Traits and behaviors often present in individuals who abuse

• Setting the Stage — Control tactics used to establish and maintain power

By understanding these dynamics, we can better support survivors, educate our community, and work toward breaking the cycle of violence.